HeartSGBlogs: Perseverance


What makes us similar?

We all have to go through LIFE…

LIFE can be split into mainly 4 components:
Making a Decision
Failure
Change
Perseverance


One of the journeys in LIFE is learning about perseverance.

Perseverance is to persist steadfastly in pursuit of an undertaking, task, journey, or goal, even if hindered by distraction, difficulty, obstacles, or discouragement.

Some may say that perseverance is stubbornness. The two are greatly different.
Stubbornness is trying the same thing over and over again, even when it doesn't work.
Perseverance is trying something else when what you're doing doesn't work.


Perseverance is a constructive, productive, beneficial trait and more importantly one of the greatest gifts we will receive in the journey of life. This trait is a piece of evidence, a basis, and an affirmation of your passion. 


Without the path of decision, failure, change and perseverance, a passion cannot be called a passion. We are unable to make any justifications to others but more importantly even to ourselves. Even if we have met our targets and goals, we will feel a sense of dissatisfaction. Therefore, to achieve one of the sweetest rewards in life of attaining your passion, perseverance must be part of your life story.


3 ways to get Perseverance into your Story


Be comfortable with being uncomfortable


When we meet failures, we tend to be shaken and doubt 
our “passions”. With failures, we are faced with two options. 

The comfortable choice of quitting or settling for just something that is comfortable- This choice is easy because it takes away the sufferings, humiliations or embarrassments that we were supposed to face.

The uncomfortable choice to keep going and acknowledge our mistakes. This choice is difficult but it brings us to change/transformation, the crucial first step towards perseverance.

Get out of that comfort zone & choose what is uncomfortable


Ask “HOW” instead of “WHY”


We often seek reasons behind obstacles, drawbacks, unfortunate circumstances & failures. “Why me!”. However, it is not a guaranteed that we will receive answers; 
at times things can simply be unexplained.Instead of relying on that 50% chance of “WHY?”, rely on the 100% chance of “HOW?”. 
“How?” opens your doors to unlimited opportunities and gives you mountains of sources to keep going.




Get Support 


Keep in mind that you are not alone. Remember those 

closest to you, your family and friends. Seek social support; 

others can be the greatest motivating factor to keep you 

going, igniting your spirit to endure and pull through.

Perseverance is all about testing your limits. It prepares you and grants you strength to prevail in life.

DO NOT GIVE UP & Stick it out till the END


"Having the simplest perseverance, create Legends"